"From struggle comes strength. Even pain can be a wonderful teacher"

Monday, December 31, 2007

Let's amuse ourselves with these ridiculous videos!


Disclaimer: This video contains misleading information with regards to sex education for the young. Not recommended to follow.



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My christmas celebrations








Welcomed Christmas with my friends and loved one, Yusri.

Sunday, December 30, 2007

Two's a company, But Three is better!


Menage a trois: It's French for what seems to be on everyone's mind these days.

Having "double the fun" with two ladies seems to be every straight male's No. 1 fantasy. At least for all the guys in my friend's list. But with so much talk about two gals and a guy, what happens when girl meets boy meets boy?

This idea of having sex with more than the usual singular partner, is fast becoming the next "in" thing. A phenomena that hits every nation, every country, every race and gender. Has Threesomes become an added feature in the Sanskrit literature of love, The Kamasutra? Is more definitely better, when it comes to bedroom playtime?

Known some people who engage in threesomes as part of their weekly activity. Be it married or single. None of these affect the ability to HAVE threesomes. Why do people do it? What are the implications of threesomes? In my opinion, never engage in something you will just lose control of later.

"To each his own"

Let us take a look at the psychological analysis of threesomes and its consequence on others.

1. What is threesomes?

Threesomes, often described as a sexual act involving three people who may or may not be related to one another in any way. It is another form of group sex with one male/top and two females/ bottoms, or two males/tops and one female/bottom. It is also the easiest to organise; a couple just needs a single partner.


2. Does one's status matter? Will threesome be considered as cheating?
Threesome goes beyond status. It does not matter if you are attached or married. Just as long as both parties are consenting to it. However in terms of whether or not it is regarded as cheating, that will depends on the definition itself.

If by "cheating" you mean becoming sexually involved with someone without your partner's knowledge or permission, then threesome doesn't count as one. A successful threesome is when ALL parties are willing. That is, if your spouse agrees and even participates, well -- perhaps one way to look at it is that you've changed the "rules" in your marriage, at least temporarily, to "allow" behavior that might otherwise be considered cheating.

Now, if your definition of "cheating" is "adultery," or sex with someone other than your spouse (regardless of whether your spouse agrees or not, much less joins in), then a threesome might well be considered cheating.


3. Who is more genetically inclined to threesomes? Men vs women
Threesome is still considered as an art of intimacy. Based on research, threesomes tap into some of our most primal sexual longings, though more for men than women. Men are evolutionarily wired to want to spread their seed as far and wide as possible. The more women they mate with, ostensibly, the more variations of their genetic material that gets passed on to future generations.

A survey done in the 1980s put threesomes in the top list in most men's fantasies. Whereares for women, it is more of a blip on their erotic radar.


4. Consequences of threesomes
Good effects
a. Brings a whole new sexual experience to all parties involved
b. Heightened the excitement, especially during foreplay (more body contact)


Bad effects (much so on the women than men)
a. Risk of jealousy
Bringing a third person into one's sex life is never simple. Imagine having threesome with your husband/boyfriend and another gorgeous stranger. Hot body, perfect complexion and hair. She could just be a stranger he met in a bar, an acquaintance, a family friend or even work colleague. But why did he pick her? Threesomes can makes things rather complicated. Emotions are involved. And women can never help but be overwhelmed with jealousy and millions of doubts. What do you then?

b. Fear of inferiority (act of fairness and virtue of comparison)
He spends more time "pleasing her" than you. You are just an accessory next to them. How do you feel then? Won't you start comparing yourself with her? How fair is FAIR? Who is to judge when all parties are too intimately involved?

c. Losing the intimacy
Once you have ventured to threesomes, be prepared to lose that initial intimacy you both once share. Especially so for couples involved in a relationship, no more that pre-threesomes relationship. Out goes the "One-spouse rule & fidelity"! In with the group sex!

d. Love triangle
Inviting a once platonic friend into a sexual tryst can be messy. In this case, threesomes become an excuse for you to have a taste of what sex will be like with that person you once/or still harbour that romantic feeling for.


-> To my friend (disillusioned and naive enough to think a threesome can keep her man, to rid infidelity and lies), WAKE UP sister and smell the roses. Threesomes is not your solution to a healthy and eternal marriage. It only spells disaster!

Would you Prada your way to the loo?



Are you an addict?

What makes one psychologically dependent on an object, a lifestyle, or even a person? You can be addicted to drugs, cigarettes and alcohol. You get cold turkey each time you are deprived of them. "Bad for your health", a common word of advise from many around you.

But addiction extends beyond chemical substances, nicotine and even booze. Regular cravings for shopping can even make you an addict.

A SHOPAHOLIC ->one who shops compulsively or very frequently. Do you belong to this category of people? Is shopping a MUST-HAVE for you each time you get your paycheck? Are you one of those who can never resist a good bargain nor help expanding your wardrobe collection?

Lucky for me, i am not a shopaholic. Can't even remember the last time i shopped for myself. I tend to buy stuff for my loved ones instead. Does that make me a giver? Hmm.. something for me to ponder about later.

Many types of shopaholic (3 deadly sins)

  • Clothes
  • Bags

  • Shoes


I do have girlfriends who fall into these category. They make shopping part of their monthly ritual. Burning a hole in their bank account doesn't seem to matter to these single, independent women. An added bonus is when they have those rich boy(frens) to aid in their monthly splurge. Lucky BITCHES.

The worse kind ->The branded freaks. They are the typical HIGH END SHOPAHOLICS. Favourite brands on their list include Louis Vuitton, Christian Dior, Coach, Prada etc. A very expensive lifestyle to maintain indeed.

I do not mind investing on such brands once in a while (and this i mean once or twice a year). A branded bag can really last unlike those cheap deals you get at Charles & Keith or even Bugis Village. Use them once or twice and you get a tear. Blah.

But, one thing i can never comprehend is to splurge on luxury shoes. Such strong addiction to branded shoes. Is it Nature or nurture? Hmmm....

Many types of shoes, many styles to match the different looks. Women are just crazy and so in love with fashion. Everything has to be couture. Just look at Carey Bradshaw from Sex & the City who spents her money on shoes from Manolo Blahnik. It has to be the MB (mind you, a pair of shoes will cost you at least US$530). What's so unique about this designer
footwear, you may ask? Slapped some rich embroidered velvet and satin, crystals and wahlah, you get for yourself a "Luxury artwork for your feet".

One of my not so recent trip in Bangkok, i witnessed a serious brand addict. She was clad from top to bottom, in Burberry. Burberry hat, sunglasses, coat, bag and even shoes! Kinda overdoing it, in my book. Funny thing is, she was standing next to a curb, to a puddle of dirty water. And to her, that gives justice to her favourite designer brand..

Why is it that these women who spend hundreds and even thousands of dollars on designer shoes, never even consider the practicality of it? They are not necessarily the most comfy footwear. Just some attractive embellishments, embroidered brand name and you get promoted in your friend's list? Foolish.

You are no celebrity nor the queen. Even if you are, you will still end up walking on the same path as the rest of us. There is no red carpet for you. You use the same public toilet, eat at the same public restaurants, coffee places etc. Why is it that your feet need that extra luxury? Just go get that overpriced pedicure, feet massage or even spa, instead. Splurge your riches on those. Money better spent.

But not on designer shoes! Why have a footwear with the brand name plastered everywhere on it. Not elegant at all. And who is going to look at the label anyway? Shoes are just shoes!

After sending all those cash, won't it be a pity if anyone mistook your shoes for a fake. It is all about class, people! Either you have it or you don't.

How bad is your temper?!

An interesting way to look at your compatibility with your spouse/lover. See who is the "water" and who is the "fire" in an argument. I did my compatibility check, as recommended by my baby. And this is what is says about us. Take note, such a comparison is crucial so as to know if you both are REALLY compatible. My thoughts on it...

GEMINI MAY 21 – June 29
You are recognized by your cheerful disposition and your jovial nature is easily susceptible to anger. In fact, you are the best person to have around when there is an ugly scene at a party you can bring the warring factions together quite diplomatically. But when you lose cool, you yell and scream and will not listen to reason. You must have the last word in a wordy duel. Your capacity to argue aggressively is matched only by your seductive charm.

LIBRA SEPTEMBER 22 – OCTOBER 22
Did someone say that you are the charmers of the zodiac? Well, it’s true. Few have ever seen you ruffled or angry. You are very conscious of your image, and you believe that anger distorts your face and personality. You also think you are above things like anger. But wait before you get into self-congratulatory mood. Your family or those very close to you know you better. You have an unmatched temper amongst all the zodiac signs, and what makes it worse is your capacity to justify it.


-> At least now i know who does the pampering in our relationship, huh baby.. bluwek!

Friday, December 28, 2007

Surprise baking!

*Disclaimer: Got the picture from some webbie. Not the actual brownie i baked.

Did something i have never imagined in my life. Baked brownies for the first time ever. Source of Inspiration: Junaina (my bestie) and Yusri (my beloved boyfriend). The brownies turned out alright., could have been better though. Made a mistake in the baking temperature. Sigh!

The result -> The brownies are a little hard on the surface, especially now that they are cool. But the inside is still yummy and soft. So not all is bad. Thank GOD!

Packed some for my baby to try later.. hope your teeth are strong enough to bite through the rock hard surface..Don't wanna see you in dentures next.. hehe. Muaks!

Menu for tomorrow
1. Pancakes for breakfast (my brother has been craving for them since eon years ago)

2. Lunch (home cooked by mua. Browsing through the menu now.. hmm.
Wonder what I should cook. Visit to the market early morning with mummy)

P.S: My mother just gave my cookies a new name.. Chocolate Blackie! Not brownie.. hehe.

My 2008 Resolution

M never a fan of resolutions. What is the point of having them when one never is going to fulfill any? Aren't i right? Wrong.

Well.. in the past, i was never motivated to have any resolutions, no reason to have them at all. But things will have to change come 2008. I have learnt the significance of resolutions. A reminder, a checklist to follow for the next 12months.

And with that, the following shall be my 2008 list. The one i will adhere to religiously. I shall keep my past behind me and look forward to the many years to come.

2008 -> A new beginning, a new life and a better future!
  • A new career
  • Driver's license
  • Tutor @ MENDAKI
  • A volunteer at a non-profit organization
  • To grasp a new language (Mandarin, Japanese or Spanish)
  • To learn scuba diving
  • Ballroom dancing (salsa, tango or rhumba)
  • To cook/bake at least once a week
  • Spending more time with my family(bf included) and galfriends
  • To exercise at least 2x a week
  • A dream holiday to Boracay
  • To quit casual drinking and smoking. Fruit juice for me.

*Fingers crossed. Let's see how my progress is with this list, by the end of 2008.

Sunday, December 23, 2007

The art of leniency: Work vs love



Saw this article in the papers yesterday abt leniency at work and in a relationship. Are we really more merciful when it comes to deficiencies in character when we are in love?

The writer claimed that humans tend to be more forgiving when it comes to relationship mistakes as compared to those errors we make at work. Yes, you make one big mistake at work, be prepared to get the X. Like in the case of my gf who cost her company millions of dollars due to one wrong transaction, and cos of that, she was fired! No room for reasons, no time for excuses. No leniency there. However, when it comes to relationships, humans often overlook the flaws in their loved ones, and would be willing to forgive and forget. These flaws can include constant physical/emotional abuse, infidelity, constant lies etc. based on my own personal experience, I truly agree. We are willing to sacrifice our dignity, pride, and beliefs, just to uphold that one thing we call LOVE! We turn deaf and blind, all in the name of LOVE!

Multiple chances were given, just to see him change despite the constant disappointment. If this is not leniency, I don't know what is!

Based on the article again, the writer gave a vivid account of the life of some dear ol' gf. Sheila i shall name her. Her "wild" lifestyle involves regular partying, drinking and sex with random men. These men, after a night of HOT sex, in return, asked her to be their gf. But Sheila who may have accepted some of those proposals, continued her playful ways and flirted with other equally sleazy men! Upon discovering her ways, these so called bfs of hers, forgave her. Status quo. This act of generosity, is seen as leniency (to the writer).

Is this really the case? Has the writer overlooked the real reasons behind kind gestures of these men? Is there really love to begin with between Sheila and her men? Or was it more of the fulfilment of lust? Based on what i read, Sheila is definitely the kinda girl you would want to have on the side. Free and easy, cheap and fun! Beats all those women at geylang, and certainly not burn a $40 hole in any man's pocket!

These men definitely DID not forgive her cos they love her. They want her around anytime, anywhere. Sheila is just a booty call. That sweet talks and empty promises were just to lure her to stay. Nothing more.

How could the writer regard this as leniency? In my view, it is just another scheming, manipulative behaviour from a man to get into any women's panties.

Using the act of infidelity (a fling partner to another) vs the act of divulging company's sacred information? Immaterial basis for leniency comparison.

OMG!

You will be amazed what you'll see in the train. Go to Youtube, type MRT and you will find so many funny videos. Be it some girl sleeping (with her hair covering her face.. she does look like SADAKO), "I step on vomit" incident, BIG BONUS dance etc.

Chanced upon this disturbing video (thanks to Jun) about a girl who screamed and shouted repeatedly in the MRT. A malay girl, I must add (sigh.. how embarrasing). The whole incident was in Malay, so i shall translate the gist of it.

Basically, this psycho girl may have gotten d news that her guy cheated on her, with some other chick. And so, she kept questioning who she is, and demanded a face to face confrontation with him. So throughout the 2mins plus footage, all she kept saying was..

1. "Sapa pompuan tu (translated - who is that bitch)"

2. "Aku turun. Aku nak jumpa kau! (translated - I am coming down. I am going to see you!)"

3. "Kau kat mana? (translated - where are you)"...


the rest was just an extension of the above..

I am so totally disgusted by her actions. I know she is heartbroken and all. But.. she didnt win any pity from me..

First of all, she did not portray ANY grace. she kept shouting vulgarities in public, in front of all the other passengers. NOT even an ounce of feminity left in her blood?? Is that how you deal with your relationship woes woman

Secondly, she was a nuisance, a public menace for that brief moment. She got everyone in the train, in the same cabin, involved in her ugly banter. They had to endure her screamings and shoutings throughout HER journey. Can you imagine the impact on the children present at that time?

Thirdly, why couldn't her friend just alight at the next available station??! Seeing her gf turning psycho, just abandon that crazy bitch! I would. Who would tolerate such a character? It is so embarrasing. Dat psycho girl was dragging everyone with her! At least, if she was alone, She might just cool down. Better still, just slap her bloody face. That will bring her back to reality! YOU dont go berserk in public like that. You don't wash your dirty linens in public for god's sake.

Fourthly, she is a disgrace to the Malay community. What kinda image did she intend to show the other races (do note, a majority of the passengers were chinese at that time)??! What would these people perceive of us? Idiot! She has no respect for her own self, her family, her friends nor her community.

Fifth, is it just me, or was that bf of her (whom i assume would be an ex by now) such an A*hole? He could have just hang up the phone, then to let her go on and on like that! Was he enjoying her rage? I think he is as psychotic as she is.

What was he thinking? I would have hung up the moment my bf gets crazy on me. No time for foolishness.

Sigh! Maturity does go beyond age, race and gender! Enjoy the video...


Pre Christmas outing Part III

Baby joined in the fun later in the evening. He looked so sporty, clad in his bright new T shirt (courtesy of Nasha.. thanks sis), sports shoes and cargo pants. CUTE! He was surprised to see the no. of shopping bags I had in my hands.. hehe..

Window shopping again! Toured Takashimaya. Went to Burberry and Fendi! I fell in love with their bags.. next on my shopping list.. check. Off to, Mac boutique @ Cineleisure. M crazy over the new Mac!!! Gona drag Jun to the store soon. Apparently, teachers get a good deal with Mac, some discount and freebies, PLUS lifetime membership with CLUB 21. Spread the news everyone!

Oopss.. caught in the act!

Dinner next at Kopitiam, at National Youth Council. had one of the worse bee hoon goreng! DO NOT buy it from the Fat Man Satay stall. It is called Bee Hoon Goreng with crab meat. First of all, the bee hoon was all soggy. Few crabmeat, but the fishy smell and taste were just unbearable! It was beyond words. I had to order a plate of rice and stingray sambal to replace that HORRIBLE HORRIBLE noodle! Never going to get that again.

Baby had his usual satay. He just cant get enough of them. And soto ayam -> Million times better than that bloody noodle. how can anyone sell that??! OMG!


Enough abt the food. Conversation with baby was amazing. Enriching, mind stimulating.. he is just the drugs for my brain! M so addicted... to you.. hehe .. muaks

Pre Christmas outing Part II

Orchard road was decorated with so many beautiful lights, ornaments and people! The whole place was crowded to the brim.. picture takings on one end, dance rehearsals, carols and many more. People everywhere, were busy with their christmas shopping, splurging on nice gifts for their loved ones. What a joyous occassion it is going to be!

Merry Christmas everyone!!!! Ho ho Ho...



Pre Christmas outing Part I

Got the best surprise yesterday. The text came at 730am from a dear gerlfren of mine, AiGhee. The petite gorgeous babe who just came back from D.C for a short stopover here, in singapore (yes guys she is available!!) She is currently doing her further studies on international relations, and as expected, is learning a third language, Bahasa Indonesia. Typical Aighee... she just has such thirst for knowledge. D whole time, we were conversing in B.I, so she could brush up and prepare for her lessons in Bali in a few days time.

We met at TCC, together with Daryl (an unexpected guest to this outing... long story.. sigh!). Anyway, had a great time, late lunch and millions of stories to tell. Of course, most of which came from my side.

Average food @ TCC. Daryl ordered soup -> The fennel soup wasnt as great as it looks. Excellent photography, but a disappointment in taste. And where was the salmon? Didnt see any... hmm.. as for my salad, it was a little too sour, and soggy. The vegetables were not as fresh as they seemed, and where were the pistachio nuts! The only tasteful item on the plate was the salmon. Have to give them credit for that AMAZING smoked salmon.. Aighee's fish sandwhich -> The bread was a tad too hard. Vegetables served as the side dish.. same ones as my salad. And crackers which we assumed were tortilla chips but turned out to be those pappadam u can find @ most Indian restaurants.. Sigh!

Overall, the taste of the food just didnt' justify the overly high prices and 10% service charges (what service was there? hmm)..





Despite the "good" food, we managed to do lotsa phototaking.. ignoring those piercing and curious eyes in the restaurant. Vanity knows no boudaries! Photos were taken from Daryl's very own Samsung U600, touch screen mobile phone. Clear pictures I must say!





Left d place @ around 430pm. Aighee head on to meet another gf of hers. While Daryl and I took a little stroll around orchard road, window shopping. Bought some Christmas gifts for my baby and bestie. Hope they liked them!
Snapshots of the one for baby..





Friday, December 21, 2007

What he/she wants...


What do you want in a man/woman? A simple question that bears such complicated answers. Let us view the "needs" and wants of a man... quoted from our dear ol' Mr Sarcasma..

Men want EVERYTHING.

Career-wise, MEN want one that offers status, financial independence & freedom to pursue a balanced, even extravagant lifestyle.

Me -> In terms of the "job aspect", their wants are direct and universal. A career that offers an attractive remuneration, image and status booster as well as personal liberty!

But when it comes to choosing their lifetime partner, the checklist just goes on and on... a lil unrealistic i might say!

When it comes to their dream life partner, a man typically wants a woman who:

-> looks like a Miss Universe but cooks & manages his household like his Mom. (my response: ever heard of the term "trade off" buddy? We are no cast of Desperate Housewives)

-> is demure in public but a sex goddess in bed. ;) (my response: Don't all men fantasise for the angel-devil persona. U should date a twin, perhaps you could get that split personality effect.)

-> loves having kids but still maintain that tight hourglass figure. (my response: no way can this be possible without any 3rd party intervention. This, i mean enrolling to the next fitness club, even slimming centres. If you are willing to be our kind sponsor, we could definitely fulfill that ridiculous wish of yours. U want us to be your next baby-making factory, but not at the expense of our figure. Try being a woman for once and tell me if that is humanly possible)

-> loves kids, and adores the inner kid in her man. (my response: Done. Easy. If your current gf dislike kids, i suggest running far far away)

-> feels secure enough to give her man the space he needs, when he needs. (my response: Your wish is my command.)

-> conducts herself with grace, always preserving her own & her man’s dignity. (my response: Wish fulfilled)

-> is a good listener, a great conversationalist. -overlooks his flaws, draws out his strengths. (my response: reasonable enough. Consider it done)

-> is someone they share a sizzling chemistry with. -sensible with money, not a spendthrift. (my response: reasonable)

-> is self-less & loyal to a fault; stands by her man through thick & thin. (my response: reasonable)

-> is someone with whom he feels completely at ease to be himself. (my response: reasonable)

Notice how i am disagreeable to the first few points. Totally ridiculous and unrealistic. But a want is a want afterall. It is something you wish can come true, but will not be a total disappointment if they dont.
Now, let me show you what women want in a man (in my opinion):
a. Stable career (good position, good salary, ambitious)

b. Inner beauty (romantic, sensitive, gentle, well mannered towards my friends and family)

c. Attractive physically (i.e good looking, amazing hot body, of reasonable height, nice thick hair)

d. Smart (i.e to strike a meaningful and interesting conversation with)

e. Great in bed

Well, i must say our "want" list is definitely shorter, and way more realistic than that of men's. And do note how we women tend to focus more on inner rather than outer beauty, compared to men. Who is the more superficial being huh.. hmmm.

Men vs women


Found these funny quotes while i was browing online. Thought i add it to mine.. Have a good laugh!

P.S: This does not mark the start of a sexist battle. Just something to add that smile on your face.. to wipe away the "work blues"...



"He jokes"

1. Men are like parking spots, the good ones are taken and the free ones are handicapped.

2. Men are like Coffee. The best ones are rich, warm, and can keep you up all night long.

3. Men are like Commercial Ads. You can't believe a word they say.

4. Men are like Popcorn. They satisfy you, but only for a little while.

5. Men are like Weather. Nothing can be done to change them.

6. Things Men Say: Why buy a cow when you can get milk for free.



"She jokes"
1. Girls are like phones. We love to be held, talked too but if you press the wrong button you'll be disconnected!
2. The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
3. If your wife wants to learn to drive, don't stand in her way.

4. Marriage is give and take. You'd better give it to her or she'll take it anyway.

5. If love is blind, why is lingerie so popular?

6. I told my wife that a husband is like a fine wine; he gets better with age. The next day, she locked me in the cellar.

7. Now days, 80% of women are against marriage, why is that?? Because women realize it’s not worth buying an entire pig just to get a little sausage.

Wednesday, December 19, 2007

Piece of Me..

Found this remix video on You Tube. Still prefer the original version, but to spice things up a lil, i thought i go techno for once! Can so imagine the ah bengs and lians dancing to this song. Hands up!


5 kinds of sex

Saw this from AM, posted by one of the members. Think it's funny and rather one of a kind! Cheered my morning up... read on. And u will know.

To all those who are abt to be wed, or have already entered into marriage life, check if any of these "sex types" has happened yet to you both.

Beware if its going downhill... muahaha..

Five Kinds Of Sex
1) The first is Smurf Sex. This happens during the honeymoon period, you both keep doing it until you're blue in the face.


2) The second is Kitchen Sex. This is at the beginning of the marriage, you'll have sex anywhere, anytime, even in the kitchen.

3) The third kind is Bedroom Sex. You've calmed down a bit, perhaps have kids, so you gotta do it in the bedroom.

4) The fourth kind is Hallway Sex. This is where you pass each other in the hallway and say, "Fu*k you!"

5) There is also a fifth kind of sex: Courtroom Sex. This is when you get divorced and your wife screws you in front of everyone in the courtroom!

Tuesday, December 18, 2007

Baby's new look!



Baby's new look. Or at least for a day! Congrats for winning the title baby! Mr Popularity in my book..

Boxers!

Bought these amazing boxers from Hush puppies. One of those impulse shopping. And good thing is.. they are cheap! Only $9.50 a box! Tried it on today. Definitely soft, comfy to the max, and most imptly, my bf loves them! They are cute he said.. PINK BOXERS.. I like!

Kept both sets at his place.. cant wear them back home. Too short. My mum will flip. haha..

Baby, u better not lose them! muaks!



Baby gotta new phone!

Nokia 6500!
My baby got his new phone today. After endless search for THE phone, we finally fell in love with the same one.. the new NOKIA 6500. The phone really suits him well. Slim, sleek and SEXY! At least it has the flash and zoom functions.. unlike my Sony Ericsson. sigh! But baby, as i said, your 2 megapixel is no match to mine. Sony has one of the BEST camera quality!!

I LOVE your phone baby!!

YEAH!

Yeah!!! YEah!!
Finally i gotta change d settings for my blog.
Feel free to leave your comments.. no more hassle...
Double Hoorah!

Wishing..


To all my Muslim friends,
wishing you and your family "Selamat Hari Raya Haji".
May you all be blessed with good health and eternal happiness!
A'ssamualaikum.

My christmas wish!


Need i say more.. am a Bad Bad gerl this yr Santa...

Monday, December 17, 2007

M sick!


M not feeling my best today. Running nose, slightly feverish n light headed. Nauseous too! OMG... must be due to the heavy rain. Was caught in it early in the afternoon today. Getting worse by the minute. Popped 6 pills just now... the usual paracetamol plus my millions of vitamins! Cant sleep as yet. Need my midnight snack. My private infirmière to nurse me to bed. Call me soon chéri!

Kitty makeover


M addicted to kittens.. Meow..



Super cute!!! I want one too.


Great day!

One thing i learnt from last nite's outing with my baby...


imikimi - Customize Your World


1. Outfit misfit
Always discussed what you are to wear each time you are about to have an outing with that special someone. Otherwise,either of you have to go back home and get changed.That was what happened to us yesterday. He was in vest,shirt,jeans and smart shoes. I was in denim skirt, flip flops and t shirt! WAt an awful mismatch!! In the end, he had to go back to my place, waited for at least half hr for me to get changed. What a waste of time. Poor baby.

2. Destination-miscommunication
He said "Honey,let's see what phone i should get. It's time for a change. We shall go somewhere in the area." I assumed Yishun. Well, that was what i tot "in the area" meant. OH Gosh was i wrong. He meant Singapore in general. haha

3. Shopping habits
Gotta know that he likes to dress up whenever he shops. As for me, my mood for the day will determine my desire to shop and my style! Somehow, i have lost that LUST for shopping.. Sigh.. shopping myjo GONE! oh myjo, come out, come out, wherever you are!

After that lil mishap we had, we headed down to Orchard Road. Quick browse @ Starhub Plaza Singapura. Fell in love with the new Nokia music express phones. Baby, i particularly recommend the prism model. Sleek and classy for u.

Got himself a Christmas gift for a colleague. A gift exchange for the festive season. And his present looked like a 100 bucks. But in actual fact, only cost him $11 (yeah! We kept within the 10 bucks budget).. hehe.. creative minds @ work.

Movies next. Disappointed with the movie choice. Ben Stiller was not as funny in the "Heartbreak Kid". Lame jokes in all. But i enjoyed the Haagen Dazs Macadamia Nut ice cream! My first. Baby liked his wedges too. He is always hungry.. hehe..

Right after the show, we went for a lil toiletries shopping. Him more than me.. hehe.. Got what he needed for his new apartment.
ANd went for our dinner. FISH & CO at the Glasshouse.



imikimi - Customize Your World

Food critique. (as requested by my baby)
1. The starters: Hmm.. i prefer the grilled calamari to the fried ones. Have a smoother,clean effect on the taste buds. ANd whats more is, grilling is a much healthier mode of cooking than frying. ;)



2. Main dishes:
The prawn fettucine was average in taste. Nothing special. And the sauce was a tad too rich for my taste buds. Got sick of it after a few mouthfuls. But the prawns were fresh i must say. Juicy!


As for the crayfish penne-> a fan of tomato based pasta. But this one just tasted funny. Too sour. And had a fishy taste and smell to it. Overwhelming for me. Highly NOT recommended.


Overall, i had a great dinner and best conversations ever! We ended the night snuggling next to each other, watching Lazio vs Juventus game. I dozed off after 5 mins into the game.. hehe.. soccer matches just aint my thing. But, the best part was, i gotta cuddle in his arms. Priceless.

Dedicated to you

Baby, this is for you. Read on an u will know just how special you made me feel. I am glad i found you...
I love you.

Sunday, December 16, 2007

Chilling out!

My besties.. Jery and Nasha.. chilling out @ Causeway pt. After a day's work, we headed down for dinner at Banquet. Same o'l for me and nasha, while Jery had his favourite sirloin steak. The funny thing is, he loves his meat, but has no clue what sirloin is! Haha.. Jery Jery..

And after a hearty meal, we took a stroll at d park right infront of Macdonalds Civic Centre. Busily snapping pictures, while Nasha's loud shriek filled the air.. ALL eyes were on the 3 of us.. the stooges.. Muahaha.. but had fun... Thanks Guys. And sis, have a super duper time in INdonesia.. Buy me goodies. And come back soon...

Have A Merry Christmas everyone.. Early greetings from mua.




Our signature kisses..



We are vain. Pictures say it all.



Just US!